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BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: "I think it's a lot." Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne. He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant. The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: "I thought it would be good to have a baby. "I didn't think about how we would afford it. I don't really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10."

Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: "When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react. "I didn't know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it." Alfie's dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father. Secret He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle. And Dennis, 45, said: "He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day." Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant. But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle's mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.

After that Alfie's family told only those closest to them for fear he would be "demonised" at school. Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex. Last night she told The Sun: "I'm tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited." Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with "really bad" stomach pains. She said: "Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn't know what to do. "He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared. "We didn't think we would need help from our parents. You don't really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you."But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum. Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: "We know we made a mistake but I wouldn't change it now. We will be good loving parents. "I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums. "I'll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad."

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle's jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans' house. He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning. Alfie's dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.He said: "Everyone is telling him things and it's going round in his head. It hasn't really dawned on him. He hasn't got a clue of what the baby means and can't explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help. "When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It's crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead." Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as "a typical 13-year-old boy". He said: "He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United." Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was "gobsmacked" when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too. He said: "When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he'd had sex, that he didn't know what he was doing and of the complications that could come. "I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it's too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby." Lovely Chantelle's mum said: "I told her it was lovely to have the baby but I wish it was in different circumstances. We have five children already so it's a big financial responsibility. But we are a family and will pull together and get through. "She's my daughter. I love her and she will want for nothing."Last night Michaela Aston, of the anti-abortion Christian charity LIFE, said: "We commend these teenagers for their courage in bringing their child into the world. "At the same time this is symptomatic of the over-sexualisation of our youngsters and shows the policy of value-free sex education just isn't working." Britain's youngest known father is Sean Stewart. He became a dad at 12 when the girl next door, 15-year-old Emma Webster, gave birth in Sharnbrook, Bedford, in 1998. They split six months later.

hmmm sekurang-kurangnya, dia tak buang anak tu kat dalam tong sampah.

kenapa cuma 16?

ini tag 16 yang rawak dari Nana. aku jawab ni Na. sedia? ;p

Syarat dan peraturan:

1) Apabila telah terpilih dengan malangnya, silalah menulis 16 perkara paling rawak sama ada tentang fakta, perangai tak senonoh ataupun hala tuju hidup anda.
2) Silalah hasut 16 orang lain untuk melakukan perkara ini.
3) Sila tanda manusia yang telah menanda anda di peringkat awal.
4) Ketahuilah, jika anda terpilih ia adalah kerana anda juga manusia biasa yang perlukan perhatian dan kasih sayang yang secukupnya ketika bayi. (YA, AKU SOKONG YANG INI)

Inilah dia 16 perkara rawak pasal aku yang akan buat korang menguap.

1. Hitam, putih dan coklat (rich brown) adalah warna-warna kechentaan aku sejak azali. Kuning, merah, hijau, biru, ungu dan kelabu juga adalah warna-warna kesukaan. Sudah jemu dengan warna merah jambu tapi tak menafikan yang ia adalah satu warna yang manis.

2. Aku berkenan sungguh dengan orang (tak kisah la perempuan ke lelaki) yang dah la pandai belajar + cantik/kacak rupa paras + baik budi bahasa + kaya lak tu. Haishh..

3. Dulu, aku ada satu penyakit. Kalau aku pakai kasut kaler itam, aku mesti nak gak pakai beg tangan kaler itam. Kalau kasut aku kaler merah, mesti nak beg kaler merah gak. Kiranya, kasut dengan beg aku mesti dari kaler yang sama. Kata lah hari tu aku terberkenan dan terbeli (saja jer nak letak Ter) kasut/beg kaler ungu, aku takkan pakai kasut/beg tu sehingga aku jumpa gak pasangannya yang berwarna ungu. Ya, itu namanya penyakit-mengada-ngada-hakhakhakptuihhh. Tapi, SYUKUR ALHAMDULILLAH penyakit itu telah berjaya di atasi sejak dua atau tiga tahun lepas. Sekarang aku leh pakai selipar kuning dengan beg kelabu. atau apa-apa jer lah.

4. Aku makan, tak bersulam air. Memang la tak elok makan bersulam air. Tapi alasan aku, bukan pasal aku kisah pasal elok tak elok tu. Cuma tinggal lagi, aku memang tak pandai dan aku akan rasa cepat kenyang kalau aku minum sebelum makan atau tengah makan.

5. Aku anak ketujuh dari tujuh adik beradik. Orang kata anak bongsu, manja. Aku? Manja? Boleh wat kenduri la kalau korang tengok aku manja.

6. Kalau orang belum kenal aku sangat, orang akan ingat aku kerek / sombong. Tapi kalau dah kenal... (aku abiskan ayat aku kat situ jer lah)

7. Walau bagaimanapun, perangai atau tingkah laku aku, bergantung kepada keadaan dan orang sekeliling aku. Contohnya, kalau aku jumpa orang, orang tu plak jenis tak banyak cakap, aku pun akan otometik jadi tak banyak cakap gak. Kalau jumpa orang peramah, aku akan jadi super-duper peramah lak. haaa gituuu.

8. Aku akan rasa segan sangat-sangat kalau ada orang tegur/kenal aku, tapi aku tak kenal pun orang tu ataupun aku lupa sapakah gerangan orang tersebut. Kes ni selalu terjadi. Kalau terserempak dengan kawan-kawan satu sekolah (ada yang sekelas) kendian diorang tegur. Siap panggil nama penuh aku lagi tu. pastu muka aku blur. nak ingat sapa eh? kadang tu aku ingat rupa, tak ingat nama. Nanti kalau orang tu tanya ”kenal tak?”. ako akan jawab ”kenal”. dan aku akan mati kutu kalau ”muka blur camtu. kalo kenal, sapa nama aku?”. hah!!! sudah!!! saje jer. Dengan itu, sesungguhnya, aku sangat malu kalau kejadian orang menegur/menyapa aku dan aku tak berapa nak kenal/ingat orang tu. Nanti mesti orang tu ingat macam aku ni bagus sangat. Dah memori aku ni tak kuat, nak buat camner? uhukkk

9. Tapi, kalau ada pulak orang tak kenal aku, itu aku tak kesah. Sebab aku rasa, muka aku bukan jenis yang orang senang nak captured. Lagipun aku suka kalau ada orang tak kenal atau tak ingat aku (kalau bukan teman-teman rapat laaa).

10. Aku suka bau-bauan yang lembut dan bau hmmm macam bau perfume Allure dan Chance dari Chanel tu pun aku suka (bau-bauan rempah ker? ntah). Aku tak suka bau (perfume) yang kuat atau manis. buat pala ako penin jer.

11. Walaupun kali terakhir aku periksa, jantina aku adalah perempuan, tapi dalam kereta / bilik aku takder simpan/gantung patung atau bunga-bunga.

12. Aku teringin sangat sangat sangat sangat nak pandai: bermain alat musik seperti gitar dan drum (dengki sungguh tengok orang pandai main ini dua alat musik), berenang (supaya aku tak rasa fobia dengan air dan dengan itu boleh lah aku menyelam scuba melihat panorama di dasar laut ciptaan Tuhan walaupun aku tau tak pandai berenang tak semestinya tak boleh buat scuba diving @ snorkling) dan melukis (oh dengkinya dengan orang-orang yang terer melukis).

13. Orang takkan tau kalau aku tengah tensi ker, tengah ada masalah ker sebab aku jenis yang huhahuha. ala-ala gumbira-pergi-bertuah la ako ni. tapi kalau aku sakit (migrain ker gastrik ker sakit bulanan ker) soheh takleh nak sembunyi sebab nanti akan nampak cahaya kesakitan kat muka aku dengan dahi berkerut. haishhh.

14. Berada di pantai (nak-nak pulak kalau cuaca cantik + angin sepoi bahasa + ombak menghempas pantai..ecehcehhh) buat aku rasa gumbira yang teramat sangat. sorga wokeh!

15. Mengelak dari menonton opera-sabun-telenovela-sinetron-atau-apa-apa-jer dari negeri Malaysia, Indonesia, Filipinasia, Venezuelasia sebab berpotensi untuk menerajang tv atau membakar panggung dengan lakonan-lakonan watak antagonis yang cilakak punya jahat-tahap-perut-neraka dan mual dengan watak protagonis yang baik giler (ntah wujud lagi ker manusia camtu kat planet bumi ni sekarang) dan sentiasa bernasib malang. pehhhh.

16. Aku nyer tahap pelupa, boleh tahan tinggi la jugak. Cemana eh?

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